Withdrawal

Random internet girl #3255. Love the eye shadow look…

One would assume the well has run dry for the time being, but further inspection shows a lack of tolerance for time-wasters or women of a lower quality. When you are faced with those of the opposite sex who are convinced for whatever reason, they are indisputable objects of desire & act as such, despite ageing, being full of arrogance & generally unremarkable, one questions what he is putting his dick in against who else has already been there & by extension, where he places himself on the overall sexual scale.

While abundantly in the minority, it is still possible to find younger or less sexually experienced women who are pleasant enough on the service or upon first encounters. But if you’re not prepared to play the Beta game of constant attention giving & pretending the object of your affection is all you desire, while allowing her to absorb as much validation as she desires (the new norm), you will struggle. The talk of how Alpha’s don’t chase is true, but claims that this is the way in which one attracts scores of women is largely bravado. In a world where practically irrespective of your actual sexual value, validation & proclaimed desire is readily available from a number of different outlets, the man who is so aloof he sticks only to informational statements or even vague approval can only play those cards so much. Get the balance wrong & she’ll go elsewhere to ‘top up’, opening the door to others. This is the crux also, of marriages being tainted or failing. The imbalance of the sexes has never been more skewed.

One key aspect of attracting women is the need to differentiate oneself from the herd. If you’re blessed, this could be by way of your incredible physique, famed talent or sparkling personality. But in reality it’s more likely to not be like this, & you’re going to have to build yourself up. As one increases their value by maximising the cards they’ve been dealt in life, they can even reach a point where they’ve maximised the perception of their value so much, they become too much for women to handle. Even on the simple level, walking with genuine confidence will be seen by those who don’t have confidence as arrogance, whereby you’ll be dismissed as such as they prepare their attitude towards you.

Look at how animals are treated by the masses, particularly by women. Cute animals such as dogs, cats & baby seals are preferentially treated better, to the extent where we inconvenience our own lives to feed & care for them, or in the latter case mobilise others to campaign against it. As much as I love baby seals & it pains me to say so, I do understand that culling is sometimes required because of the need to maintain an environmental balance. But the point is, that there will always be preconceptions about you from the very moment another registers your presence. Appear impenetrable in how you have empowered yourself & this comes across strongly in your demeanour, & you will become too complex to control.

The Beta’s of the world prosper because they accept the rules that have been laid down for them. They are happy to gain the attention of a girl by being the one who wins the volume races of compliments or listening to their endlessly dull & repeated conclusions of the world. They accept that the girl they proclaim to have fallen for, is fully aware of his interest & so shelves him while she gets her fill of all the dick on offer. I’ve seen men hold torches for women for entire lifetimes in such a manner.

Men age, & it is apparent. I am under no illusions that I am not the man I was ten years ago. My face shows the lines that tell the hardships I have endured. But it is by no means at a point where it makes any more difference to if a girl finds me attractive or not. In contrast, I have built other aspects of myself to extremely high levels, that theoretically should increase my perceived sexual value. Financial power, physical fitness & so on, only go towards a logical conclusion once I start to question why despite this my results are different, I build aggression towards my surroundings; specifically the women of mating age. The resentment builds & I push myself ever further, because their falsely based value, derived from created ‘achievements’ that are no more than any person should do by default. Being female should not grant you any additional value. Being a decent, functioning person should not grant you any additional value. But thanks for modern day feminism, such things are celebrated as exceptional & the beneficiaries of this attitude begin to believe it. Anyone who is actually making exceptional effort will look at this in disbelief, much in the same way as the victim of rape will from someone throwing around the word ‘rape’ entirely out of context & meaning. The net result, as is the case with me, is that those genuinely pushing themselves to be exceptional & gaining real value, begin to withdraw from these ‘false’ circles & take their own path. Having read or listened to a number of autobiographies, I would propose that many of those who have made great achievements in life, have experienced something similar in concept to that at some point. In short, that they have tried to subscribe to the current framework in which one is expected to prosper at some point & either by way of failure, or success at a cost of dignity, rejected that & decided upon going their own way. But by way of rejecting the existing framework, comes a level of resentment which only serves to further fuel the drive they applied to the previous framework, but with a new level of determination coming from their new found knowledge of their own way, & the drive to prove that right.

I’m fairly sure there isn’t any way of short cutting this. Perhaps in reflection of my own path in women & sex, where I came across additional blogs & articles before immersing myself in it entirety, I ultimately have found a world where I have prioritised my own development & experiences, over the lack of dignity found in attracting women to sleep with me. Frankly speaking, when an overweight, unpleasant, unfeminine woman is for example, stating how she “didn’t like the way I’d spoken to her” after two days of her not replying to me when she’d clearly been on a date the day I’d messaged her & went on to enjoy her weekend. A woman I should point out, who I hadn’t even met, let alone agreed or came close to having even a semblance of any relationship with, making judgements on my choice of phrasing (which I should add was entirely reasonable).

Am I going to tolerate that, as well as her likely dull patter & prioritisation of her inane speculations, simply in order to giving her some of the best sex of her life? Absolutely not; on the simplest level few women have done any better to sexually satisfy me than what I can do to myself. More than ever, I understand why less & less men are willing to entertain the concept of marriage (let alone relationships), turning to genuine prostitution (instead of the pathetic dance that is Instagram models selling themselves) & going entirely their own way.

~ Unjaded

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