Anne De Paula, hailing from Brazil. Eyes open on the news to see who’ll be fucking her soon.

Much like in economics, the rule of diminishing utility also applies to women. I found myself today discussing with a friend, how I no longer gained much pleasure from going to your typical nightclub. I have no interest in posturing to others to feel better about myself, no interest in most of the music that is played in such places, I don’t drink & getting women into bed is easier in almost any other scenario than in a club in my opinion. My self worth is rooted in the knowledge & experience of the self, the music is generally just generic shit that as a musician I can see straight through, I’d likely to be surrounded by drunken idiots & more likely to get into a fight with someone & getting women to go home with you from a club is probably the most thankless task known to man these days, even for a prime – well, prime enough – alpha like myself.

I’m now thirty seven, & while I can appreciate younger readers out there might not appreciate where I’m coming from, bear in mind I’ve hit it hard over the previous years. I’ve hit the bars & clubs (& occasionally still do the former: nothing wrong with hanging out in a bar), I’ve gone through all the expectations & jumped through all the hoops, & played the game – only to come out with fuck all. But don’t get me wrong – as a young man you should be experiencing these things. But if you really want to learn, think about what’s going on around you while you do. Those wily old dogs who have managed to come through those same menacing years you’re now living up, are probably actively seeking on fucking your girl. Don’t allow the fun, to cloud your awareness & judgement, because it’s most likely your girl is going to be jumping on someone else’s dick.

I have often in the past looked at people of high standing in the eyes of women, such as celebrities or popular sports stars, & wondered why on earth they would ever possibly consider getting married or sticking to one woman. I heard a story of a pop star, who I believe was Usher, who apparently used to just sit on his couch, while a queue of women waiting outside his dressing room to fuck him. He’d literally just fuck woman after woman, without having to anything at all. Damn, he didn’t even have to open the door; his security did that.

I jest on this blog, & it probably comes across as arrogance at times to the otherwise uninitiated. But it’s just confidence. I know what I’m good at, & also what I’m not so good at. And getting girls into bed, is one of my specialties these days. You can go back in this very blog to see the journey & the journey I took as I perfected my ways over the last two to three years. It certainly wasn’t easy, but also with fantastic experiences. While now I am almost mercilessly systemic in my approach, I do still waste time with certain people & that’s my current challenge. Also continuing to waste time with people who either don’t put out in a reasonable time frame, or who are simply shit in bed. I’m understanding when it comes to people wanting to learn, but I may as well be fucking a pillow if someone wants to turn all the lights off & not kiss.

People often talk about testosterone dropping as you get older, but your attitude towards sex (& life) is going to be influenced more by whatever your genetics have blessed you with & also the lifestyle you lead. It’s well known weights increase testosterone. The actual drop between an eighteen year old & a seventy year old man, is estimated to be approximately only twenty five percent over the course of your lifetime. Over a lifetime, that’s practically nothing. What will change considerably depending on your experiences, is your attitude towards women & life.

Right now, I’ve reached a point where I know most tricks to get most women into bed. It doesn’t matter so much on their relationship status, age or much else. It simply depends on me identifying what type of character they have & critically, how much effort I’m willing to put into it. An example would be the Ecuadorian woman I have spoke to sporadically over the past months. She gave me her number, met up with me – even came to my house once, despite being married. She then told me over a matter of a few weeks, how firstly she couldn’t go any further with me, & then soon afterwards, how much she liked me, loved spending time with me & wanted to go further but was resisting ‘temptation’. Why was that? Because I changed my attitude to her, once I realised she was more of a romantic.

But let’s be clear. This didn’t mean I started buying her flowers or professing my love to her. Far from it. What I did, was subtly modify the composition of my messages to her, the way in which I propositioned her to meet & the way I behaved with her, into a ‘softer’, more emotional approach. With other girls, this could not work at all , because they want a dominant man & see it as weakness. But with her, it was the key to unlocking her heart / legs. That said, I didn’t sleep with her because I had come to the point where frankly, I had a whole host of other girls who were already sleeping with me, good in bed & with whom the arrangement was little more than coming over, fucking me & leaving again. That’s perfect for me.

But there ain’t a thing like contagion. And as I considered what I enjoyed doing in life, what I missed & new possibilities, I realised there were a lot of things I’d rather be doing, than getting certain girls into bed. Anyone who for example, is going to flake on me more than once (once is permissible, as it can happen & also then gives me a freebie), regularly not respond to text messages or with whom I have to meet more than three times before they agree to come to my place (they all know what ‘coming over for dinner’ means), is wasting my time. And I can think of at least two women I’ve been spending time with who most guys would fall over themselves to get into bed with. And if they messaged me to tell me, ‘can I come over & see you’, I’d most likely answer ‘yes’. Such is the blessing of being an attractive woman – you can get fucked whenever you want. But for me, fuck them. I’m not going to tolerate being ignored or treated like an idiot, just for the sake of some pussy, when I’m practically drowning in it anyway.

~ Unjaded


Welcome to Anllela Sagra – another ‘Instagram Model’ (not sure when that became a job) & owner of a fine ass body.

It’s so interesting how one’s perception can change with time & experiences. From a moment of realisation in conversation, to reading a phrase that stays with you while you make your way through a book. A lot of this takes place in simple day to day interactions, but gets lost because the delivery is inadequate for the moment or the stage isn’t grand enough.

On the macro level, it can happen through a number of subtexts. The internet taking the place of so much previously face to face interaction is something I’ve gone into more than once, as is the influence of the politically correct media seeping into the millennial generation; apparently the most depressed & least sexual generation to date. Clearly not a coincidence.

I’m a person who can happily eschew people for a certain period of time, being content in my own world. An introvert at heart. But even I acknowledge the central importance of any of our most central memories, being intrinsically attached to the involvement of another person or people. Doing shit alone ain’t really much fun. That said, delving too hard into isolation or surrounding your every minute with others can also be exhausting, even physically as well as mentally. Embrace something too much & you may end up deeply within in, forgetting why you’re there.

A classic strategy to put young people off of smoking when I was growing up, was to give them as many cigarettes as possible & tell them they’d have to finish all of them that day, before doing anything else. Typically, this would of course result in them being violently sick & through association, being totally off cigarettes for good. There seems to be something to this, as I know quite a few people who’ve experienced something similar with vodka (even at an older age) & then never touched it again.

Much in the same way, the more we deny something, the greater we might desire it. Most cite age for this but I don’t agree entirely – experience is something not equal to age depending on how one chooses to live their life but invariably is connected due of course, to the passing of time that brings us opportunity or experience. Those jaded young men believing a relationship at the age of seventeen to twenty two will be the answer to all their problems do have good intentions but are painfully unaware of how they are not taking into account the typically true nature of today’s Western female. They do this, because they know no better. Only hard experience will show them that the path forward is self improvement & self-sustainability. Even those reading this, may attempt to take this advanced path early, & good for them for doing so. But the reason ‘why’ one is following that path will always remain without basis, & so the vulnerability will always remain. Many a man has created the life he thought he wanted, only for something inside – something without foundation, to fall; by his own hand or otherwise.

So in many ways, you could say it’s a rights of passage. Girls being as they generally are now, allow us to take the best of any situation presented to us, by putting some of us through hell or at the very least, proposing such trades that no sane person would possibly go for under any other pretext. For example, “I’ll be only yours forever” in exchange for financing my lifestyle, your seed, your unabridged openness & faithfulness, & no mistakes whatsoever. Of course, we all known what happens should someone make a mistake (entirely acceptable by the way; anyone doing anything that have to do will make mistakes & potentially end up in bad situations) & for example, the classic test of you being imprisoned. How long would it be before she strayed? If your answer is anything other than “She wouldn’t”, then any such trade is utterly worthless to you. You’re giving everything for a lie.

As I have mentioned here before, I am involved in the music industry. Anyone who has had some level of interest from a label or management company will testify, that whatever you believed before joining that organisation, will quickly be torn to pieces in the interest of the greatest success of the band. If you thought your image for example, was very cool, you’ll soon be told in no uncertain terms that it’s not, if it’s not.

And therein lies the essence of the greatest issue we as people face; being honest with one self when faced with a situation. When another tells you things in real terms (which happens most often in business, usually from those who have found success through it), it’s around this point that egos get hurt. Dealing with your ego is one of the biggest challenges you’ll face, & it reveals itself not only when hurt, but also when one wants to convince one self of something, which may not be entirely true & they know it. Time & time again, I’ve seen people trying to convince themselves of an idea. If that idea involves someone else, an entirely non-controllable entity, then you’re already putting yourself in a dangerous situation.

The unfortunate truth is that, as many have alluded to, society is in a state of decay. The proliferation of internet, the degrading of shock value, the rationalisation & acceptance of everything, & removal of structure outside the workplace has made life joyless, people detached from each other, relation non-permanent & options available to all.

Give a man power & you’ll see his true nature. Give a woman power, & much like hell hath no fury like a woman scorned, hell will soon be made real.

~ Unjaded


Jen Seltzer. Don’t pretend you wouldn’t.

The beauty of having an abundance mentality is that you can revel in the glory that is not caring about people moving on. While I am by no means a cold hearted person, I am of course a realist. In all aspects of life, I simply look at the facts underpinning any situation. Anyone who for example, feels the need to rev their car or motorcycle unnecessarily loudly as they trundle past, tied to the lights as much as anyone, is clearly a person who has a deep lying insecurity or inadequacy. Such people are very easy to affect, as all you have to do is isolate what that inadequacy is.

The easiest way to do this is to view your adult life in the same way the dynamics evolve in the school playground. In the USA & UK at least, this is very clear to the hierarchy that naturally develops. Those with inadequacies feel the need to overcompensate in some way; the girl starved of attention elsewhere for whatever reason or who has a low self esteem, will strive to be considered then hottest, dominant or most popular. The child who is clearly behind in the intellectual stakes will impose a physical or intimidatory level of control upon another to compensate.

Typically those examples will reach a logical ending; either ending up pregnant, in prison or destitute if they turn to chemical release. In terms of women, most women even today do harbour some requirements for romantic security in some way. But if they can, typically they will. I’ve lost count of the amount of women I’ve known who are in long term marriages & have not hesitated to cheat on their husband should the sex deteriorate or reduce in frequency for whatever reason. Just this week, a ‘free life coaching lesson’ offered to be, ended up with us jacking each other off in the back room. No, I couldn’t really believe it either but it was plain as day from her body language & the look in her eyes, she wanted it. I could raise the stakes by saying ‘it just happened’, which no doubt would be her excuse should her husband ever find out, but it had all been reaching a head through the messages we had exchanged. So, my conclusion has, & has been for some time, that if a woman can cheat with little or no chance of being caught, she will. I would say these days, this is true for about eighty percent of women. There still are some decent women out there as I’ve often said, but very, very few of them are trustworthy. In fairness, the same can be said for men. But as I’m not in the business myself of fucking men, I don’t care about that. What I do care about, is my own personal gain. And while it is unfortunate in that sometimes a nice girl may not get the level of relationship she is looking for from me, she still gets some great sex & in all honesty, it isn’t all that bad. The BustyKosovan didn’t think twice about dropping me for a hot stone once some other dude came along because she ‘wanted a relationship’, despite her saying she didn’t want anything serious in the beginning, so I was happy to strike while the iron is hot. Effectively my point is, that I struck while the iron was hot, got what I wanted & knew all along that was a distinct possibility.

Right now, I have a admittedly hot Indian girl patiently waiting on me to arrange a time with her to meet. She’s a nice girl & also attractive, but I also have two other girls I’ve been sleeping with who are also hot, & whom I want to continue sleeping with for the foreseeable future. It’s entirely possible the Indian girl will lose patience with me this week, but although we get on very well & she has a superb body, I can already imagine her to be inexperienced & honestly, not very good in bed. Plus, she’s leaving in a matter of weeks. So while someone with an non-abundant attitude may be falling over themselves to impress upon this girl enough so that she will jump into bed with them, I’m quite happy to deprioritise her below these others, because with the others I know exactly what I’m getting, or in the case of once later this week, there’s simply a better girl who I’m at the conversion stage with. I’m not going to say no to a girl fifteen years younger than me who has a tight gym trained body & is hot on any scale.

The abundance mentality is mentally tampered with by a feeling of obligation – this girl made the effort to message me, so perhaps I should do this or that in order to keep her ‘warm’. Or if you’re not running a harem, that you feel as though you couldn’t just sleep with this girl for a while because she’s a ‘nice girl’. But you can. Just be sure to do it well & in the end, she’ll quickly find another man who will be more than happy to take your place – you’ll be nothing more than a happy memory of some dude she once slept with.

This abundance / obligation conflict takes place in all areas of our life, to the point of controlling us completely. One might feel scared to express oneself in a job for fear of losing said job, but as long as what you say is said in an acceptable way & full of facts, it would be hard for one to terminate your position there. And honestly if they do on that basis, they’ll be doing you a favour because you don’t want to be working for people who are so stuck up their own ass, they cannot accept criticism which might improve the situation for everyone. Much in the same way a girl will quickly trade you in for what she perceives as a superior model, simply accept this attrition & look forward to your new free time soon being filled a new model of your own.

~ Unjaded

The Shoehorn

Appreciate this might not be for everyone, but here we have Emily Skye, who as far as I’m concerned as the perfect female body. I can’t even look at some pictures of her for too long, before I start shouting uncontrollably.

The shoehorn is what people do to themselves because of perceived societal or peer expectations, & the fear of being excluded. Much like an equation, if simplified this means one is doing something out of fear.

Fear is the precise emotion anyone who wishes to control you feeds upon & takes advantage of. If there is a mass murderer on the loose in your vicinity, people worry about them until they have been caught. The prospect, however remote, modifies the actions of the fearful people. Governments, companies, institutions & charities act exactly the same. Opportunistic governments seize upon threats that cannot be easily quantified or embodied, such as communism, terrorism or whatever other ‘ism’ is en vogue & easiest to substantiate at that time.

Corporates use this every day, to scare you into thinking of the worst case scenario where if you lose your job, your entire life will collapse. If you lose your job, you won’t be able to pay your mortgage, your wife will leave you & your friends / peers will question your standing or integrity.

Institutions & charities utilise the same tactics to relieve you of any extra cash through threats about what could happen, if you don’t pay X, Y or Z made up charge in the former case, & playing on guilt in the second case. In reality, any charge can simply be made up & if people accept it, it will continue to be. Look at the charges for letting / renting called administration charges, reference checks & so on, all wildly overvalued & totally unjustified. Tell me why there needs to be any institution charging a tax for internet usage; that is, a institution that has nothing to do with the upkeep, regulation or maintenance of the internet. Where is the money going? A reason will be presented, that will be framed using or creating a perceived fear. That reason will be weighted against the cost for you; fully considered by the originator of said cost – financial or otherwise. Although the stakes are always being quietly raised to extract as much out of you as possible, too much of a jump is still not generally considered acceptable.

Certain countries allow tracking of their citizens internet usage, using terrorism as the justification. Control through debt or fear of debt is rampant & commonplace.

When we talk of approaching a woman in the street or elsewhere, we all have experienced that feeling of trepidation. It may have been when you were inexperienced or towards a particularly attractive girl. Or perhaps you did it before & she was a bitch about it, & then you struggled with it ever since. But we get over that fear by acknowledging the worst possible realistic scenario.

If she refuses you, you should be proud you mustered up the courage to approach her – you’ve already done more than the typical man.

If she gives you her number & then never replies to you, then delete it again. You take heart from aforementioned approach that was this time successful & that you have quickly identified her as an unreliable flake & therefore saved time that could have otherwise been wasted or even detrimental to your mental health further along the line.

She’s a bitch when you approach her? Same as above, but greater. Thank God she was unstable enough not to mask this so that you were able to quickly realise. Don’t validate her by allowing it to upset you. An ideal response would be to calmly inform her that an attractive outside doesn’t compensate for an ugly character by any measure, & then continue with your day.

What’s the worst that can happen if you don’t pay an internet charge from a legally ratified fraudster agency? Your internet can be cut off. The solution is to go & buy an internet enabled phone with prepaid sim, which is not then tied directly to an address & can be used as a hotspot. There’s more to it than that, but one of many examples.

Your boss likes to use fear to motivate instead of respect or leadership? In most developed societies, it will be very hard for you to be made entirely destitute, even if he finds an excuse to terminate your contract. Prepare for such an eventuality by ensuring your life is mobile & lean; the majority of us can do without half the rubbish we surround ourselves with, as a lot of it is brought due to a deep lying unhappiness with our day to day lives, brought on by such things I mention above. We buy these things because we’re trying to unconsciously justify to ourselves what we are doing with our time.

Your peers, friends or wife leaves you because you came upon hard times, such as losing your job? What a blessing you will waste no more time with materialistic cunts that claim to be within your circle, yet jump ship at the earliest opportunity. Finally, you are free to follow a path of your own choosing & redesign your life as you truly desire, no longer bound to anything or anyone. Ideally, you would have already placed safeguards in your life through a prenuptial agreement & downsizing your belongings to the most essential. But fear not, that if there may be a problem in that you went in with foolish blind faith, there is a solution to every problem. While I don’t have children myself & am likely never to do so due it producing an unsolvable link upon another, I do appreciate how there may be a feeling of obligation towards children, & this is respectable. Coming back to my point before though, if you find yourself trapped in an entirely unreasonable situation such as one that you may find yourself in following a divorce & bound to utterly unreasonable financial commitments, think of alternatives. It may even be worth moving country entirely & should you feel a debt to your children, make arrangements for informal payments directly to the child. Hilariously, if you feel you must stay you could even propose to pay your child support in voucher form, so as to increase the chances of directly paying for your child & not the bitch that is gouging you to finance her own lifestyle.

It’s a complicated matter & every situation is different, but my point is that every situation or problem can be turned into an opportunity or solution. By now, I’m convinced people are looking for excuses for how they are or how they feel they’ve failed, because they feel they haven’t reached certain perceived standards. But those perceived standards are often false; a consensus emerges from the hive mind & to which no one can truly become. Every person’s opportunity cost ensures that – a bodybuilder cannot also be an effective long distance runner & in much the same way, a man cannot be everything. Believe me, I’ve tried. However, anything is possible, & many allow themselves to be deluded into thinking there are only the ways that are established, when confronted with a challenge. But in any area, the conditioning of your own mentality should allow you to see through these & determine your own course of action.

While we may live with regret, we do not have to endure it.

~ Unjaded

Strike While The Iron Is Hot

Alexandra Lillian, seemingly in need of help finding her bikini top.

Although this may be obvious to veterans of game, this is a blog for all & some of our lesser experienced brethren may not know one of the fundamental aspects of game in today’s ultra competitive attention garnering of females with a view to getting some actual action; is to take advantage of a woman’s infatuation period. As I’ve gone through in more detail long ago on another game blog in my early days, knowing to maintain the interest in the earlier moments is key. The endless stream of attention in your average girls life nowadays means that, while you should never be at her beck & call, in reality you are going to have to maintain some level of at least fake interest in order to get where you want to be; between her legs.

When is the infatuation period? Realistically, it’s going to be somewhat dependent on your game skills. At the very least, game should be used to give the impression your value, is superior to yours. In the early days, your goal to have some level of success is going to be to give that impression to her; that you are superior to her overall. You will need to play to whatever strengths you have in order to maximise that, while in parallel actually working on yourself to raise your actual level. That will benefit in the medium to long term in any case,.

In contrast, a man who has already employed such strategies of self improvement & seen them through, will be very much in the same position. But with more ammunition. The improvements he has made to himself will allow him to link his value perception to more facets of his character, making it more substantive.

How does this link in practice to the infatuation period? It simply will buy you more time. This alongside the level of your applied game (that is, how effective you are at actually employing these principles), will determine the impression you make on the hapless young (or older) lady. Generally speaking though, the more experienced you are in game, the more likelihood of you being able to take advantage of the infatuation period.

The infatuation period is simply the moment between you meeting her with the impression you make on her, & her meeting someone else who will do exactly the same. It doesn’t take long either. I consider myself now a near expert proponent of game. Generally speaking, my day game approaches will be able to get most women into an isolation level first date by standard. During certain phases, my game rises to levels where I can get women into bed by a second date, or even a first on occasion. But by no means does it mean I’m now immune to the attrition that can take place, even after you’ve slept with a girl.

Recently I spoke of a BustyAlbanian, with whom I’d gone through the usual process of meeting, slowly building up her perception of me & comfort with me, in order to get her to my place under the pretense of making her dinner or watching a film, before making my move to warm her up for the bedroom (or sofa, or kitchen table…ahem). All went perfectly to plan, with a total of three dates in total before sealing the deal. Due to a combination of working through my harem & deprioritising her so as to keep interest levels up with the others, I didn’t see her for a couple of weeks. Bear in mind, she is an attractive women & would be considered so by any red blooded man. To cut a long story short, I gave her an orgasm so hard she was dizzy afterwards the fourth time we slept together, had her talking about how hot her giving me a blowjob was the fifth time we saw each other, & her telling me only five days later that she had met someone else & wanted to give it a go with him, as she’s now ‘looking for a relationship’.

I actually don’t mind this at all. Although she was hot, this frees up time in my schedule for someone else. My somewhat obsessive nature with sex does get me into an overloaded position sometimes. Honestly, if she’d wanted to meet up this week I didn’t actually have time. And frankly speaking, I left it with a ‘best of luck’ & a ‘contact me if it doesn’t work out’. I’ve left the door open, because now knowing the local ‘market’ here (which importantly to note, is overloaded with men because it’s a finance city), whoever she’s dating is going to either be a wet flannel or a bastard who’ll she’ll have her fun with & eventually she’ll get angry with.

And in the case she doesn’t come back, do I really care? It was pretty clear from the beginning she wasn’t interested in anything serious & neither was I. She knew what she was getting herself into & here we are, at the logical conclusion.

The only other important thing to note, is to get the balance right between maintaining a certain level of attention & going overboard, as the latter simply results in you coming across as needy. That may have the opposite effect, whereby your lack of aloofness will will start to make you unattractively needy. A balance should be maintained, which is a good test of your own perception & intuition. If you fail, learn & improve.

Finally, it should also be noted that the desirability of a girl & the mediums to which she has availability of options should be considered. A clearly & generally considered attractive girl who puts herself as available on an attention whoring platform (such as Tinder or it’s peers), will be able to get laid with not an Alpha (the true Alpha’s are those who seem unassailable & genuinely rare), but some one dimensional steroid laden dickhead who will be constantly monitoring the app / website & immediately drop whatever he’s doing provide the grinding she desires. Having any goals in life which require real attention & a time commitment, while an fully commendable activity, will be detrimental to the infatuation period possibilities against one dimensional dickheads. You owe it firstly to yourself to use game as a self empowerment tool, to avoid becoming a desperate shadow of yourself as many of the single dimension men will ultimately become. Just understand clearly, that you may have to accept losing out sometimes, which you’ll discover through girls not messaging you back or flaking on you, or all the usual shit we have become accustomed to now.

~ Unjaded

A Generational Disaster (Pt.3)

Yovanna Ventura, best known for fucking… oh sorry, ‘being friends with’ Justin Beiber….

Continued from part two.

And finally we come to generation Y; the most recent & current generation of whom are the most technologically familiar, accustomed to it from birth. If you were wondering where the entire YouTube soap opera supposed counterculture was coming from, this is it: videos talking about what was said about another Youtuber by someone else (yes, somehow this became a career along with ‘Instagram Model’ at some point), routinely outperforming professionally produced content. An unstoppable, self absorbed gossip machine with the attention span of a caffeine high mosquito. A left wing domain, where along with the desperate attempts of some generation X to stay relevant, all attempts to express alternative viewpoints to the norm or challenges to someone to justify their viewpoint are dismissed in a flurry of personal attacks.

The concept of hiding your real self behind the protective curtain of the internet reaches it’s true extremes, where language is cranked up to it’s most offensive & normalised, that would otherwise be unspeakable in the real world. Unsubstantiated threats are made, without understanding the full possible, real world consequences should you underestimate who you are making them too. The entirety of one’s self esteem & peer validation are derived from their online presence, as entire lives are lived online, only venturing to participate in the real world when absolutely necessary to survive (e.g. work). Those who manage to create an existence where they can also earn online believe they have reached complete utopia, as they no longer have to participate in the shared, real world, instead living in their own alternative existence.

Yet this otherwise until now seemingly lost generation also have the greatest access to information from them all; almost to the point of saturation. They actively seek out information & can often disseminate information from disinformation quickly & efficiently. Should they wish, they have complete access to learn & become anything they want. They are the closest to the pulse of any generation to date.

In theory, this generation could dominate the world. But they fall foul to three major problems. Firstly, their misunderstanding of how true self worth can only be built through challenging oneself & learning from mistakes made in the process, instead of through ‘likes’ or whatever the equivalent is, leads them to a massive problem. A complete lack of resilience means they can often be entirely useless in the real world. A challenging work environment can often lead to them complaining about their workload or conditions, whereas in reality no generation has had it easier.

Equally, their social interaction in the real world is often verging on disastrous. Many of them can barely put together conversations online, & shrivel at the prospect of engaging any further with a person in a real world setting. From a male dating perspective, numerous people have commented independently to me on the complete inability of girls in their early twenties to even hold a conversation of any note. The impetus to improve oneself or engage a genuine interest has been replaced by documenting the moment for approval among peers later in the day.

Which brings us to the issue of ego. While this can be a problem for any of these generations, it becomes more so as we more to the most recent. The ego has completely consumed generation Y, & X to a less degree, where the need to demonstrate or more commonly falsify one’s success, wealth or sexuality has become the primary goal. Humility has completely disappeared, replaced by false empathy. The only reason for appearing to have interest in a cause or assisting another, is only how it will ultimately increase the perception by others of your own standing. The motivation is the net gain.

The immediacy of everything from birth means immediate gratification is expected, in the manner of the internet. The delay of gratification until something has been achieved as a reward mechanism is an unwanted concept, & it becomes evident in the lack of true experts. Whereas the true masters of their art once spent countless hours poring over their predecessors works before finally conceptualising & realising their own breakthroughs somewhere amid the chaos, now people proclaim themselves as experts, particularly in areas where a return on investment is difficult to measure. ‘Social media experts’ come from nowhere & take their place beside engineers & scientists who’ve studied for many years as equals; if not more valued as the brand perception is considered higher than all else. Suddenly, the immediacy seems to become more endemic throughout the company & short term reactionary actions are taken, instead of measured responses riding out the natural fluctuations of any market.

The hive mind has for the most part, taken over any real education on matters. Bite size quotes take the place of informed discourse & debate. While this has somehow decreased the mobilisation of genuine extremism in the real world (perhaps due to this generation being afraid of real life for the most part), there is no real depth to anything. To think this generation will one day inherit control of the earth is rather terrifying. While it could turn out well as a slew of left wing manifestos roll out across the developed world, there could be a series of unexpected shocks, such as what happened in Germany after they let a disproportionately large amount of refugees into the country all at once. While I’m a full supporter of controlled migration, it’s entirely possible that with generation Y in control of the developed world, we could see a collapse of sovereignty that we’ve already started to see today. And if that happens, who will be able to impose order again, while generation Y are busy taking selfies against the backdrop?

Lest I say, I am truly thankful to not be a teenager or man in my early twenties as a part of this generation. The validation culture has given every women, irrespective of her real worth, a hugely inflated perception of herself. Even women that would normally be classed as a five, now believe they are deserving of only the highest calibre of man. You see solid men, who while not exceptional themselves, are certainly in good quality shape & decent people; next to absolutely shockers of females. Either grossly overweight, not putting any decent amount of effort in to how they present themselves or if they do (or sometimes regardless), so stuck up their own ass I’m surprised they can even walk straight. The superficial culture again pervades into the bedroom, as every girl presenting herself as a sex kitten online, turns out to be appalling in bed. They’re more concerned with how they’re looking to the other person, rather than enjoying the moment. Sex becomes a battle of posturing & ticking off certain goals, rather than actually being an expression of love & passion. I’m sure it won’t be long before younger women delude themselves into thinking the duck face should be maintained while having sex, & they distract themself from possibly allowing themselves to enjoy it by posting a selfie during the act with the caption ‘currently getting #fucked by #sexy #man #sexkitten #lovethatdick #notawhorethough’. The funniest part is it’s probably the least sexual generation to date, which is indicative of it being the most joyless generation to dates. Very little seems to be done from the heart & instead comes from the ego.

And what happened to men?? Metrosexuality has been around since the nineties but only achieved a comparatively low level of being taken seriously & seemed to disappear. But now the typical guy has preened his style to the last detail; one wonders out of necessity due to the now wildly unrealistic expectations of the modern woman. The only men who have regular success with women now are the alpha males; you literally have approximately fifteen percent of the men fucking eighty percent of the women in my experience. And no matter how much you try, only a selected few can achieve that level. You’re out of luck if you’re missing any of: facial looks, body fitness, financial excess, sexual prowess, dull politically correct views on everything or friendly, cockish personality. Is it any surprise in the developed world cocaine use among young men is higher than ever? Steroid use is higher than ever? Depression is more common than ever? Suicide is higher than ever?

Art imitates life, then vice versa & back again. The apparent acceptance of the ttpical modern young men in his new impresario role; that is to intensely work on making himself as attractive as possible to the now choosing woman & little more, has even become apparent in art. Most popular male artists are commonly singing higher than their female counterparts these days. The typical, successful male pop singer now sings falsetto by default, while during a duet with a female she’ll be singing the lower parts; practically an aural acknowledgement to the nature of dating & mating today.

Everything you need to know about generation Y is visible at any sport or music event. Whereas I remember running around ferociously as a band thrashed away onstage, utterly absorbed in the moment awash with emotions, any picture of a gig taken from the angle of the crowd is now peppered with the unnatural glow of numerous phome screens taking pictures of it to later share on social media.

Celebrity by association equals apathy by association. Not everyone can be a celebrity. No matter how you may try to convince yourself otherwise, you are not that celebrity. That celebrity doesn’t care about you & most likely, doesn’t even know about you. They are totally oblivious to your existence & you are nothing more to them than a contributor towards a statistical figure in their sales or marketing department. The celebrity themself probably doesn’t even look at the numbers contributing towards that. That’s the job of his team. No matter what, you are nothing more to them than a sales unit.

So now we’ve cleared that up, what is the future for generation Y? Firstly, get your head out of your internet access devices & start living life for the benefit of yourself, rather than to display to others. Generally speaking, you are of very little substance; an ‘observer’ generation if you will. No doubt a few of you have graduated to become masters of the technical space & perhaps when your time comes to be the decision makers of the world, we will indeed be blessed with tremendous technological leaps & creative entertainment. But all of this will be in vain if the roads we use are crumbling, the roofs above our heads no longer shelter us as we sleep & the streets are overrun with crime. Much in the same way culture has shifted towards nothing being taboo since those of the war generation started to retire & disappear, we will again slowly reach another age. Perhaps one of apocalyptic fascist apathy, as the need to maintain, build & implement becomes lost in the noise of political correctness, perversion acceptance & lack of skill. It bothers me not, that I do not expect to bring new life into this world, such as is the sight of all societies collapsing at the inability of this most recent generation to rally their token disapproval into real action, to displace opportunistic, unskilled ingratiates.

And that brings us to the end. Of course, there are endless subcultures & alternative groups that might differ from my generalities I describe above, & of course there’ll always be exceptional individuals that buck the trend. And really, whatever generation they may be then more power to them – those people are likely our best hope of survival, if not prosperity.

~ Unjaded

A Generational Disaster (Pt. 2)

Mara Teigen getting it all out for our viewing pleasure, & no doubt absorbing the validation.

Continued from part 1.

Generation X: The transitory generation & the one to who I myself belong. I’ll do my best not to be biased…

This generation knows both sides of the story, watching as dramatic changes took place in the technological & communication sectors, & they were the focus of them. As I sit here using an application upon my phone to write this, I think back to our family home only having a dial mechanism to make calls, or purchasing my cutting edge mobile phone, when an SMS message wasn’t even commonly understood to exist, let alone be used. Now, messaging is the primary method of communication.

As Apple released their iPhone in it’s initial iteration, the frenzy was justified. While now everyone & their dog own a smartphone, at the time it was a genuine game-changer. While now the Apple phones are simply marketing to indoctrinated idiots who believe a massive corporate brand gives a shit about them if they champion their name & also like to waste their money on personalised license plates or overpriced brands, the first iPhone defined the style & potential of usage permanently. As mobile internet rapidly improved, the possibilities began to seem endless.

This generation was & in my opinion still is, one of the most aware. Having to adapt to a range of different changes in a relatively short period of time meant needing to be switched on. As technology was thrown our way, we had the advantage of starting at it’s relatively simple beginnings (BASIC programming language anyone?) & much like the boomers in the finance & property sectors mastered the fundamentals & got in quick to make their money, the technology & (more advanced) communication sectors were ours. We are now overwhelmingly the creators & owners of the technological structures upon which later generations utilise to present or consume.

On the personal level, as children we’d seen the exponential rise of acceptable levels of violence & sex in our media. Whereas the late seventies & early eighties had seen a sharp pullback in the free love ideology thanks to the spectre of HIV becoming prevalent, the reaction to that as we approached the early nineties, was popular media figures raising the bar to gain notoriety. There’s no such thing as bad publicity, as we saw a host of films, music & TV edging the bar up. From rap sounding more explicitly violent or divisive, pop becoming more risque, metal becoming heavier, or films becoming more sexual or violent (the latter especially). Madonna was truly the queen of this, with her hardcover book ‘Sex’ generating mass hysteria, furious debate & of course, enormous sales. Marylin Manson used almost the same model to wondefully successful effect as we progressed through the nineties, utilising some facial makeup, contact lenses, some controversial imagery to whip the media into so much of a frenzy, he has a successful career to this day as a result.

Pushing the limits was the name of the game, whatever your environment was. Financiers upped their game, introducing more complex instruments to make more money. Films traded off their controversial content; ‘Basic Instinct’ & its star Sharon Stone both supposedly staked their claim in film folklore & a cemented career respectively, by Ms Stone flashing her pussy. A very nice moment for me as an incredibly horny teenager, but absolutely ridiculous in hindsight.

This manifested itself in every quarter, as more is better. We also started to see the popular adoption of relatively fast, more stable internet. Once that was in place, the process only accelerated.

The normal invisible fear factors such as communism had largely disappeared with the end of the Soviet Union in the early nineties. Thanks to people being able to choose their information provider via the internet, it’s replacement ‘terrorism’ (TM) was a little less effective, as generation X had seen a lot of bullshit exposed as new information channels opened up & retained their ability to analytically question anything – the last generation to do so. However a solution compatible with the boomers needs to finance their own lifestyles was created, through seemingly more affordable education. Entry was easier for more people (as it should be) but over the years, the boundaries were slowly moved & the truth of it being a debt mechanism (with interest of course) came to light. Debt had reached it’s pivotal point as a means of controlling people, & as the scale of it reached insurmountable levels, so it would be for the entirety of generation X at least. I am fortunate enough to be in a far superior financial position to my generational peers, yet to this day I still have a student debt.

It was a confusing time to grow up, as generation X tried to balance what was proliferated through the media by the controlling boomers as a ‘good’ way to live, against increasing access to a new world of information online & finally, each & every new development. These rapidly changing times left many confused or even susceptible to the conflict between old & new. Although the advent of Tinder was still some way off, online dating was emerging & hilariously in hindsight, considered as possibly dangerous. The normalisation process for online dating took longer than I personally expected, but women soon realised whichever site they chose & with careful selection of photos, they’d soon be flooded with attention. Once word spread of how much validation one could acquire online, women flooded online & the dating game was truly changed forever.

It was unquestionably the best time to be a woman, as feminism was in full swing & the fearful corporate brands all too willingly rushed often underqualifed women into positions to fulfil implied & sometimes regulatory quotas, rather than everyone being judged or awarded on merit. Popular media, afraid of exclusion, quickly jumped on the bandwagon, speaking how female empowerment was now driven by women acting how they thought the typical man acted, but still proliferating how a ‘real man should be a gentleman’ & if ‘chivalry was dead’. Men were cajoled into acting as though values they’d known to be valued in the previous generations, still had value today. With the flurry of information & means to consume it still being adapted to, dating could be a disaster for men. While it was still possible to meet sane (enough) women through traditional means, a lot of men fell victim to these lies, as many women’s hypergamous nature proved to be too strong for them to hold back & they gleefully fucked their way through hordes of mostly unaware men. As men slowly realised dating was changing, the origins & first proponents of game began to emerge, as the nineties concluded.

This aforementioned image women then popularly assumed of men was largely driven by years of bitterness from women who claimed to be feminists, but had no understanding of real equal rights or where they were needed, & instead let their ego absorb their new found fame at the frontline of this latest wave. This image was usually negative, which just resulted in a lot of women acting up the stereotypical bitch role – a role highly unnatural to anyone due to it being based on an implied image, rather than actuality. Furthermore, it simply wasn’t attractive at all. Sure, they convinced themselves at the time being a power woman who fucked whoever she wanted was the path to happiness, but do you really think it’s a coincidence there’s so many clearly unhappy, desperate, rapidly deteriorating women out there in their mid to late thirties, scrabbling around trying to find a gullible enough man to father some children & bankroll their lifestyle?

Speaking from personal experience, I have no sympathy whatsoever for generation X women who struggle now to find anything of worth in their lives. They made their bed & now must lie in it. Back when people like myself verged on mental illness trying to understand why things were as they were, & the now well known joke about ‘nice guys finish last’ was in full effect, there was so much focus on the general promotion of women, people like myself were not forgotten, but not even noticed to begin with. Although I regret the time I wasted not understanding why I was not being accepted or painted badly by virtue simply being male, I now am happy for all of those harrowing experiences that contributed towards the unassailable strength, perception & understanding I have today.

The women who feel lost & isolated today because they didn’t consider others back then? You contributed towards men being as they are today; indifferent, not romantic & eschewing marriage because they see no reason. You deserve every day of disappointment, disillusionment & unhappiness you get.

Continued in part three.

~ Unjaded