Division

Here’s another useless idiot contributing nothing to society…ah sorry, I mean ‘Here is Melanie Iglesias for your viewing pleasure…’

One thing I’ve noticed about dating women as you get older, is how you have to change your approach somewhat because women have decided they want to entrap men. This, is rapidly becoming the main reason why I’m considering getting out of the game altogether. It’s so boring listening to used up or broken husks, trying to manipulate you into a situation which resembles a relationship. There seems to be a big misunderstanding that just because you’ve decided you want a relationship, your pussy isn’t going to be enough to persuade Unjaded of all people to parade around with you at various pointless social events & within pictures, putting at risk what I’ve accumulated up until this point & giving up all my freedom. Simon ‘self esteemless’ Nofriends whose barely had a sniff of it his whole life might fall for that shit, but I’ve seen what some of these fuckers are capable; the spite will drive a man into the ground until he is utterly ruined, while she will drink down the spoils of half of what he used to own.

Of course I don’t proclaim that all women are like this, nor that it comes from their nature. It may be part of their nature but only in the same way by way of his higher testosterone any man is capable of being violent.

No, now I’m at the point where I think that while there are women who because of trauma or revenge wish to destroy men, I also believe that there are interested parties who have a view on infiltrating & influencing groups to the point of extremes. This can be on a malicious level, where those with means implant people who actively look to raise their rank within that group & then control the direction of the group, to unchecked majority discrimination which is highly active. While we hear endlessly about how women should be afforded equal rights in any area deemed to be attractive (you don’t see many feminists campaigning for equal representation to work in sewerage maintenance for example), you don’t see anyone trying to change the massively outweighed representation of gays & women in the media. To the point where someone with a qualified background will not be hired, unless they see that they can be controlled or manipulated somehow – the emasculated men. Look at what I believe to be AskMen.com, whose editor (a man, of course; although that is stretching the definition of that term considerably) is someone who a feminist website retracted his comments, because he fully advocated men dying of cancer.

That is what we, as men are up against now. Total disdain for everything men have done & continue to do to make this world function. The occasions of which one could either simply reverse the gender of a phrase after which it would be universally condemned, or where women or homosexuals totally dominate certain influential sectors with nothing being said at all, are now countless. The only things that work in men’s favour are somewhat ironically, the feminists showing themselves to be tiresome & without a tangible endgame. In reality, most people are quite reasonable & those who do support these entirely unrealistic feminist proposals do so more for attention or because of some underlying mental issues.

All of this however, brings us back to the initial point; the valuation of the vagina. Even if all of the above is of no direct consequence or interest to you, which could be an entirely realistic scenario given that most ‘active’ feminists are tucked safely behind their keyboards in highly developed countries while their kin get slaughtered, raped & enslaved in countries where feminism is clearly lacking, the furore of it all trickles down, because one thing that is common among humans & particularly among females is the need for acceptance. The ideas that are circulated at length by the keyboard warriors succumb either to a huge media explosion after a company is accused of something that in all likelihood isn’t that big a deal but validates whatever it is by apologising for it, or it becomes viral (among women) over the hive mind… sorry, I meant social media of which who are the biggest users? Women of course!

At the end, some of you understandably will have never seen the way things used to be. When men were respected. And it’s the constant battering & discrimination by extremists that make men feel embarrassed to enjoy life. Contrary to what an increasing number of women seem to think, men are fathers, sons, children, creators, saviors & carers too. Yes, some men are bad. Some people are bad. That is something irrespective of gender. This is not a man vs woman thing, in much the same way it’s not an Islam vs Christianity thing, a capitalism vs communism thing or a black vs white thing. This is all a means to control everyone, through fear, debt, hate & irrationality. If you want to make the world a better place, look after every good person in your community & treat as required, the one’s who widely resist against the common good. Every division makes everyone weaker.

~ Unjaded

The Shoehorn

Appreciate this might not be for everyone, but here we have Emily Skye, who as far as I’m concerned as the perfect female body. I can’t even look at some pictures of her for too long, before I start shouting uncontrollably.

The shoehorn is what people do to themselves because of perceived societal or peer expectations, & the fear of being excluded. Much like an equation, if simplified this means one is doing something out of fear.

Fear is the precise emotion anyone who wishes to control you feeds upon & takes advantage of. If there is a mass murderer on the loose in your vicinity, people worry about them until they have been caught. The prospect, however remote, modifies the actions of the fearful people. Governments, companies, institutions & charities act exactly the same. Opportunistic governments seize upon threats that cannot be easily quantified or embodied, such as communism, terrorism or whatever other ‘ism’ is en vogue & easiest to substantiate at that time.

Corporates use this every day, to scare you into thinking of the worst case scenario where if you lose your job, your entire life will collapse. If you lose your job, you won’t be able to pay your mortgage, your wife will leave you & your friends / peers will question your standing or integrity.

Institutions & charities utilise the same tactics to relieve you of any extra cash through threats about what could happen, if you don’t pay X, Y or Z made up charge in the former case, & playing on guilt in the second case. In reality, any charge can simply be made up & if people accept it, it will continue to be. Look at the charges for letting / renting called administration charges, reference checks & so on, all wildly overvalued & totally unjustified. Tell me why there needs to be any institution charging a tax for internet usage; that is, a institution that has nothing to do with the upkeep, regulation or maintenance of the internet. Where is the money going? A reason will be presented, that will be framed using or creating a perceived fear. That reason will be weighted against the cost for you; fully considered by the originator of said cost – financial or otherwise. Although the stakes are always being quietly raised to extract as much out of you as possible, too much of a jump is still not generally considered acceptable.

Certain countries allow tracking of their citizens internet usage, using terrorism as the justification. Control through debt or fear of debt is rampant & commonplace.

When we talk of approaching a woman in the street or elsewhere, we all have experienced that feeling of trepidation. It may have been when you were inexperienced or towards a particularly attractive girl. Or perhaps you did it before & she was a bitch about it, & then you struggled with it ever since. But we get over that fear by acknowledging the worst possible realistic scenario.

If she refuses you, you should be proud you mustered up the courage to approach her – you’ve already done more than the typical man.

If she gives you her number & then never replies to you, then delete it again. You take heart from aforementioned approach that was this time successful & that you have quickly identified her as an unreliable flake & therefore saved time that could have otherwise been wasted or even detrimental to your mental health further along the line.

She’s a bitch when you approach her? Same as above, but greater. Thank God she was unstable enough not to mask this so that you were able to quickly realise. Don’t validate her by allowing it to upset you. An ideal response would be to calmly inform her that an attractive outside doesn’t compensate for an ugly character by any measure, & then continue with your day.

What’s the worst that can happen if you don’t pay an internet charge from a legally ratified fraudster agency? Your internet can be cut off. The solution is to go & buy an internet enabled phone with prepaid sim, which is not then tied directly to an address & can be used as a hotspot. There’s more to it than that, but one of many examples.

Your boss likes to use fear to motivate instead of respect or leadership? In most developed societies, it will be very hard for you to be made entirely destitute, even if he finds an excuse to terminate your contract. Prepare for such an eventuality by ensuring your life is mobile & lean; the majority of us can do without half the rubbish we surround ourselves with, as a lot of it is brought due to a deep lying unhappiness with our day to day lives, brought on by such things I mention above. We buy these things because we’re trying to unconsciously justify to ourselves what we are doing with our time.

Your peers, friends or wife leaves you because you came upon hard times, such as losing your job? What a blessing you will waste no more time with materialistic cunts that claim to be within your circle, yet jump ship at the earliest opportunity. Finally, you are free to follow a path of your own choosing & redesign your life as you truly desire, no longer bound to anything or anyone. Ideally, you would have already placed safeguards in your life through a prenuptial agreement & downsizing your belongings to the most essential. But fear not, that if there may be a problem in that you went in with foolish blind faith, there is a solution to every problem. While I don’t have children myself & am likely never to do so due it producing an unsolvable link upon another, I do appreciate how there may be a feeling of obligation towards children, & this is respectable. Coming back to my point before though, if you find yourself trapped in an entirely unreasonable situation such as one that you may find yourself in following a divorce & bound to utterly unreasonable financial commitments, think of alternatives. It may even be worth moving country entirely & should you feel a debt to your children, make arrangements for informal payments directly to the child. Hilariously, if you feel you must stay you could even propose to pay your child support in voucher form, so as to increase the chances of directly paying for your child & not the bitch that is gouging you to finance her own lifestyle.

It’s a complicated matter & every situation is different, but my point is that every situation or problem can be turned into an opportunity or solution. By now, I’m convinced people are looking for excuses for how they are or how they feel they’ve failed, because they feel they haven’t reached certain perceived standards. But those perceived standards are often false; a consensus emerges from the hive mind & to which no one can truly become. Every person’s opportunity cost ensures that – a bodybuilder cannot also be an effective long distance runner & in much the same way, a man cannot be everything. Believe me, I’ve tried. However, anything is possible, & many allow themselves to be deluded into thinking there are only the ways that are established, when confronted with a challenge. But in any area, the conditioning of your own mentality should allow you to see through these & determine your own course of action.

While we may live with regret, we do not have to endure it.

~ Unjaded